My wife and I don't give each other gifts anymore. We travel for Xmas and New Years instead. One of the best gifts is the opportunity to go to places we've read about and explore with camping and riding or both.
1st year together we took a 5 day cruise ship to Cabo San Lucas out of San Diego.
2nd year, we went to Sedona AZ with our truck, camper and bike for two weeks.
3rd year, we took the truck and bike to Guanajuato Mexico for two weeks.
4th year, we took the truck and bike to LA and rode PCH and Highway 1 to SF and back, 9 days
And this year, we are in FL panhandle since last Sunday camping in one of the excellent FL State Parks and riding the beach roads.
We head for home this coming Mon.
We tell the kids not to expect us for Xmas. We send them pictures everyday of our adventures and they are jealous of the quality time we spend together. There's enough parents, step parents, grandparents to keep them busy for the holiday.