Sled,sledhead said:I talked to a shop owner that is located where the accident happened yesterday after i posted this. he said he talked to the niece and she stated the girl was hyped up on drugs. she is still in jail where she belongs. I may get my jewels in order and go talk to the wife. I don't know her very well and didn't want to create more grief for her. but i think that is the only way I'm gonna find out exactly what happened. plus i need to offer my condolences and help if she may need it. I've been trying to find something in the paper , but no info has been available.
My sympathy is with you. In tragedy, you will not be making the tragedy worse by Comforting a person over their loss. It behooves us to comfort others. In this way we also wish for comfort when we lose what we love.
comfort others and in your time of need others will be there to comfort you.