Just call me an ostrich as I sorta avoid this topic as I hate bad news. For that, I apologize. As late a date as it is, my emotions ran the gamut of "oh, sh*t" to "thank g-d."
Many of us have been through a wreck. Although they're all different, they still affect us the same. We say to ourselves, "why did this happen to me (or us)?" In your case it was because of some kid's thoughtlessness and stupidity. Regardless of cause, the important thing is to recover and go on with life. Y'all seem to be a wonderful group and recovering. I wish you the best and hope to see y'all back on the road. A lesson has been taught to all the rest of us and the bright side is that this whole incident may save lives. Always gotta look at the silver lining.